Kisi Ladki Se Der Tak Kya Baat Kare

Kya aap apne favorite ya uss ladki se long time tak baat karna chahte ho jisse aap like karte ho to doston aaj hum aapko isse related topic share karne jaa rahe hai. Kaise aap ladki se long time tak der tak baat kar sakte hai. Kyuki hum me se kai aise bhai hai jo baat karne me confuse rahte hai ki kaise or kya baat kare. Yahan kuch tips provide karne jaa rahe hai jisse aap apni conversation se hold kar sakoge and ladki ka interest bhi bana rahega aap par. Ek ladki se baat karne ke liye, aapko ye show karvane ki jaroort hai ki aap genuinely interested ho ladki me or usse kuch aisa kahe jo usne kahi se bhi nahi suna hoga. Agar aap janna chahte ho ki kaise kare to niche diye gaye tips ko follow kare.

Kisi Ladki Se Der Tak Kya Baat Kare

Don’t Bore Her

Most guys ladki ke sath conversation karne me mostly mistake karte hai or vo hai BORING feel karvana. Seems obvious, right? Agar aap kahi na kahi uss ladki ko chahte ho to …. don’t bore her. Everybody knows that. But fir bhi kai ladke girls ko boring feel karva dete hai. Why?

The reason why, of course, is that most ladke think women want to hear often are not what they actually want to hear. Ladkio se baat karne ke agar hum interesting topics ke baare me puche to, mostly guys ye kehte hai ki:

  • Travel
  • Excitement
  • Danger
  • Sex
  • Parties
  • Drama

Or kuch guys ye bhi topic interesting mante hai:

  • Pop culture
  • Music
  • Celebrities
  • Fashion
  • Friends
  • Gossip

Kya ye sare topic aapke hisaab se right hai? The fact is, kuch ladkio ko some of those things ache lagte hai…. but agar aap aise hi start ho jaate hai to kya pata aap apna bahut time unn things me waste kar rahe hai jo girl tedious (थकाऊ) manti hai. Yahan kuch tarike unn ladko ke liye provide karne jaa rahe hai jo ladkio ko talking ke time amazing lagte hai.

#1: Find Out What She’s Interested in FIRST

Imagine kare ki aap ek ladki se mile ho jissne abhi abhi Cosmopolitan ka latest edition padha hai or kya ladka sach me fascinated hai ki nahi.

  • Sports
  • Guns
  • Violence
  • Motorbikes
  • Video games
  • Stock trading
  • Robots
  • HDTV

Now, iss valuable information ke sath armed kare, otherwise attractive girl aapke sath conversation me knowledge ko found karti hai, jaise droning on and on about guns and stock trading, or video games and golf. Sure, koi aapko intersting find kar sakta hai.. but the rest of it makes you want to go jump off a bridge.

#2 If She Doesn’t Like It… Ask Her What She Does Like

So aapko kaise pta lagega ki girl kisme interested hai or kiss me nahi hai and uske interest ke baare me kaise baat kare? Agar vo kehti hai ki sometimes but vo interested nahi hai. To doston samjh jao ki reverse course ka time hai ye and talk about something else. Agar vo kahe ki “Are you kidding? I partically know half of Hollywood’s addresses and middle names!” to samjh jaye ki aap jeet gaye ho. Now, agar vo interested nahi hai, to aapki conversation kuch aisi hogi:

You: Do you ever travel, or want to travel?

Her: No, I totally should, but i just never seem to get around to it.

You: That’s cool. So what do you do to get new stimulation in your life so it isn’t the same old thing all the time?

Ladki ne kaha ki usse travel me interest nahi hai, which means ki aap apne amazing travel story se uss ladki ko bore kar rahe ho. Instead, aapko question hi change kar dena chahiye jaise ki aapko kaise life me new things paane ke liye kaise kaam karte ho.

Get Her Talking

Iss article ke through hum aapko conversation example provide karne jaa rahe hai so aap dekh sakoge ki kaise ek normal conversation aapko kaise long time tak interaction me rakhti hai. Yahan kuch important points about ladki se der tak baat karne ke tips btaye jaa rahe hai and kuch new pieces bhi add kiye hai jo aapko help karega.

#3 Make Your Interest Clear (Or Implied)

Conversation ke end hone par ladki hamesha khud se yahi question karti hai ki “Main uss ladke se baat kyu kar rahi hun?” Jab vo kissi good reason ke sath come up nahi kar paati hai to, she excuses herself fast. Jab ladki khud se excuses dene lag jaati hai, it’s simply because usse khud hi nahi pta hota hai ki conversation ka point hi kya hai.

#4 : Ask Interesting Questions

You can’t always do this one, but aapko find karna hoga ki aap kya more try kar sakte ho, better hoga ki agar aap apni abilities ladki ke progress ke sath bhi try kare. Yahan kuch 3 precisely tarike hai jo aapke questions ko interesting bana sakte hai:

  • Make the topic interesting
  • Make the topic curiosity-inspiring
  • Make the wording interesting

#5 : Be Mildly Bored

Jab bhi aap ladki se baat kare to aap mildly bored ko across kar sakte ho. Imagine Brad Pitt or George Clooney ek ladki se baat kar rahe hai. Unke face ke expression ke baare me soche. Mild annusement, mild boredom. Unhone already hi ye ek million times kar chuke hai. That’s the look you want.

Keep Her Talking

By this point, you have got the basic parts of talking to women down: aapko pta hona chahiye ki boring ko kaise avoid kiya jaata hai and ye bhi pta hona chahiye ki ladki ko baato me kaise lagaya jata hai. But agar aap chahte hai ki vo aapke sath long time tak baat karti rahe to aise me kya karna chahiye? Chaliye kuch padte hai tips.

#6 : Deep Dive Every Good Topic

Most inexperienced conversation ladko ki ladkio ke sath kuch example ke roop me:

Guy: Where are you from?

Girl: I’m from X. Where YOU from?

Guy: I’m from Y.

Girl: Cool.

Guy: So how do you spend your time?

Girl: I don’t know, some A, a little B. You?

Isski vajah se hi ladkia boring conversation totally maanti hai but kuch ladkia aapko ek silver platter bhi de sakti hai or aapke sath talk kar sakti hai jiski vajah se aap unhe jaan bhi sakte hai. Instead, for every good topic you land on – and by “good topic”. Aisa topic jisme uske life ko integral and important mile jaise:

  • Work
  • School
  • Hobbies
  • Passions
  • Pastimes
  • Objectives
  • Experiences
  • Dreams
  • Goals
  • Aims

Ek small set of questions se aap unko deeply jaan paoge. In sabhi deeper question se aap unhe jaan to paoge hi sath hi sath unse baat karne ka mauka bhi paa sakoge vo bhi der tak.

#7 : Provide Feedback

Throughout your conversation, feedback dena na bhule jo show karvata hai ki you are paying attention and relating. Just little remarks jaise:

  • “Hmm.”
  • “Oh I see.”
  • “Really?”
  • “That’s crazy.”
  • “How’d you get through that?”
  • “That’s pretty remarkable.”
  • “I’m surprised you hung in there that long.”

Ye sab ki aapko jaroort padti hi hai. Ye encouragement offer karta hai ladki ko taki vo talking karte rahe and keep going with the topic.

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