Ache Insaan Kaise Bane

Hellooooooo friends, kaise hai aap sb? Hope sab ache hi honge. Topper guru aaj phir le kar aaya hai ek new topic “Ache Insaan Kaise Bane”. Kya aap bhi janna chahte hai ki acha insaan kaise bana jata hai? So guys aaj hum aapse yahi share karne ja rhe hai or hume yakeen hai ki humare tips aapko ek acha insaan banne me kafi help karege. Ralph Waldo Emerson ne kaha hai ki “Make the most of yourself… for that is all there is of you.” Acha insaan banane ki definition aapke hisaab se kya hai doston… kuch ka kehna hai ki jiski soch achi ho, mind or kaam bhi acha ho, to koi kehte hai ki koi bhi perfect insan nahi ban sakta but jo perfect banane ke liye hard work karta hai vo acha insaan hai etc. etc. Aapki bhi kuch aise hi thoughts honge na doston. Isn’t it? But humara manna hai ki ek acha insaan wohi hai jo kabhi kisi ko dukh na de. So doston hum apna article continue karte hai or aapko kuch tips provide karvate hai.

acha insan banane ke tips

Compliment Yourself

Compliment (tarif) to hum dusro ko dete hi rahte hai but kya aap khud ko compliment dete hai agar aisa nahi hai doston to dena start kare. Jab hume koi compliment karta hai to hum kitna khush ho jate hai, agar kisi ke tarif karne se hum itna khush hote hai to sochiye ki khud ki tarif karke hum kitne khush ho jayenge. Ab doston aap soch rahe honge ki khud ko compliment dene se kon acha insaan ban jata hoga but iske piche ek logic hai doston. Sochiye agar aap daily sochte karte rahte hai ki aap ke paas ye nahi hai vo nahi hai to kya aap khush reh payenge or dusro ko bhi khush rakh payenge. Vaise hi dosto agar every morning agar school jane se pahle ya college jane se pahle ya office jane se pahle khud ke liye 2 minutes nikal kar khud ko compliment de chahe vo aapke outfit, haircut ya phir koi achievement par hi ho isse aap khud ko little emotional boost karege, jisse aap humesha happy rahege.

Don’t Make Excuses

Jab hum kaamiyaab nhi hote to hum kisi or ki mistakes bta kar excuses nikalne lag jate hai but ye nahi dekhte ki nuksaan to hamara hi huya hai. So doston aapni mistakes ko pahle accept karna sikhe or aapni mistakes se sikhna start kare. Jo log aapni mistakes ko ignore na kar usse sikhte hai vo better person banane me kaamiyaab rahte hai. But itna bhi yaad rakhe ki hum khud se sabse acha jooth bolte hai. Jab bhi hum koi kaam nhi karte ya nhi kar paate, tab hum khud ko hi excuses dene lagte hai, apni galti nhi balki bahana dhoondhte hai or aapko aisa hargis nhi hone dena.

Aap jab bhi success hasil nhi kar paate to sabse to khud ko ek baat samjha de ki aapne puri mehnat nhi ki or saari galti aapki hai but next time aapne aisa hargis nhi hone dena. Jab aap khud se ye baat kehna seekh lenge tab aap apne aap ek ache insaan ban jayege.

Practice Forgiveness

Mistakes to hum sab se hoti hi hai but usse maaf karna kon janta hai. Doston jo maaf karna janta hai usse hi hum ek acha insan kehte hai kyuki galtiya karna to hum sikh hi gaye hai but hum insaan maaf karna kab sikhenge, ye koi bhi nhi jaanta! Doston, maaf karne ka matlab ye nhi ki aap use phele ki tarah apnaye. Kuch galtiyon ko hum maaf kar dete hai, lekin bhul nhi pate. Remember one thing always, Jo insaan 2 se jyada baar aapka bharosha tode ya aapka dil dukhaye ya kisi galti ko repeat kare, uspar bharosha hargis na kare, nhi to vo aapko bevkoof hi banata rehega. Aur vaise bhi doston galti sirf ek baar hoti hai. Baar-baar kisi cheej ko repeat karna aadat hoti hai, so take care of that. Practice the mantra, “I forgive you and I release you.” Hamesha isse yaad rakhe phir dekhiye aapme khud kaise changes aate hai kyuki kisiko maafi dene se humare dil ko kafi sakoon milta hai or acha lagta hai. Par itna dhyan rakhe ki maafi dil se deni hai kyuki kehna to bahut aasan hai par kisiko sach me maaf karna bahut hi mushkil hai.

Be Honest And Direct

Doston kaisa feel hoga jab aapka koi best buddy ya business partner aapse jhoot bole? Jaise aapka vishwaas toot gya ho. Agar aap apne personal or professional life me ek better person banana chahte ho to doston hamesha truth or clarity ka hona bahut jaroori hai. Doston apne thoughts, feelings and ideas ko openly and honestly share karna sikhe.

Always Be Polite

Doston aapko ek “Thank you” bolne ke liye kitne effort marne padte hai? Ya kisi ke liye lift me door open karna… kitna effort lagta hoga? Jyada nahi na. However, kisi ki help karke aap kisi ka din bana dete ho. Dosto chahe samne vala jaise marji behave kar raha ho like rude, worse etc. but aapka behavior kisi ke liye change ni hona chahiye. Don’t be high-per and stay polite with everyone.

Ek shaant insaan humesha har kaam aasani se soch samajh kar hi karta hai par vahi agar aap har pal gusse me rahege to aapko baad me apne hi decision par doubt hoga isliye humesha Calm rahe and thande dimag se hi har decision le.

Surprise People

Kisi someone ko smile karvane ke liye kaisa feel hota hoga? Obviously acha hi hota hai, right? So doston surprise your loved ones or co-workers. Aap unhe gift bhi de sakte ho or night out on the town ka bhi plan bana sakte ho or aap kisi ko help offer kar sakte ho. Matlba aisi chize kar sakte ho jo dusro ko surprise karvane me successful rahe. Lekin aapka surprise kisi ke liye shock nhi banana chaihye. Surprise aur shock ka difference aapko tae karna hai.

So doston acha insan banane ke liye aap ye tips ko pick kar ise follow kar sakte ho or apni life me aage bad sakte ho. Agar aapko hamara ye article pasand aya ho to ise share and like karna na bhule. Do share your views of being a good human with us via comments. We will reply you as soon as possible. Thankx for visiting our site. Be happy.

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